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How Do You Know When It’s Time to Move to the Wellings?

At some point in our lives, we all face transitions that ask for more than just logic—they ask for heart. And one of the biggest questions we hear from people in their late 60s or early 70s is this:

“How do I know when I’m ready to move into the Wellings?”

It’s a powerful question, because it’s not just about real estate. It’s about identity, freedom, and creating a better rhythm for this next chapter of life.

You Don’t Have to Wait Until You Need To

Many of our members tell us the same thing once they’ve settled in:

 “I wish I’d done this sooner.”

Why? 

Because they made the move while they still had the energy to enjoy the process. They packed on their terms. They said goodbye to their old home with a full heart—not one weighed down by stress or urgency. They stepped into their new lifestyle with excitement, not exhaustion.

Think of it this way: the best time to make a change is before you feel forced to. Not when you’ve been worn down by three months of planning, selling, sorting, and saying goodbye in a rush. Not when the house has become too much, and you’re bringing all that overwhelm with you.

It’s hard to start something new when you’re running on empty.

Are You Feeling More Drained Than Uplifted by Your Home?

Your home may have been the center of your world for decades. A place of family dinners, holidays, laughter, and life. But sometimes—quietly, slowly—it shifts from being a source of comfort to a source of stress.

Is it harder to keep up with the maintenance?

Do you avoid certain stairs or rooms because they just feel like too much?

Are you spending more time managing your house than enjoying it?

These can be the subtle signs. 

The whispers.

Moving Doesn’t Mean You’re Giving Up

Sometimes there’s a fear: If I leave my home, am I giving up a part of who I am?

The truth is, moving into the Wellings isn’t about loss. It’s about choosing to live lighter, freer, and more connected.

You’re not downsizing your life. You’re expanding your possibilities.

At the Wellings, your days are your own. You can lock the door and go visit the grandkids for a week without worrying about the lawn. You can try something new—a fitness class, a dinner with new friends, a quiet moment by the fire—without having to plan around chores or house upkeep.

Make the Move Before the Move Makes You

Here’s the most important thing: You want to walk into this next chapter with strength, not strain. With clarity, not chaos.

When you have the energy, the time, and the presence of mind to make the move well, it becomes something beautiful. You arrive open—not carrying the burden of burnout.

So if you’re asking the question, that’s already a sign. You’re listening to the small, wise voice that says:

Maybe now is the time to let go of what no longer fits, so I can embrace what comes next.

When you’re ready, we’re here.

And if you want to talk it through, we’ll sit with you—no pressure, just conversation.

Because your next chapter should feel like coming home.

And maybe, just maybe, that home is here.

Time to Get Moving 🚶‍♀️🕺

There’s something magical that happens when we get our bodies in motion.

A walk around the block. A little stretch in the sunroom. Dancing while the kettle boils. Movement doesn’t have to be a marathon—it can be a moment.

And those moments add up.

They wake us up. They lift our spirits. They spark joy. They remind us we’re alive.

At Wellings, movement isn’t about exercise for the sake of it. It’s about celebrating what our bodies can do. It’s about keeping the joints oiled, the blood flowing, the smiles wide.

So whether it’s a stroll with a neighbor, a stretch before breakfast, or a little cha-cha in your kitchen—go ahead. Move a little. Laugh a little. Feel good in your own skin.

This is your time. And it’s time to get moving. 

Let Them Win 💛

It’s not always easy.

We want to help. 

We want to guide. 

Sometimes, we want to set the record straight.

But as the years go by, we learn something deeper:

Not every moment needs to be corrected.

Not every detail needs to be clarified.

Sometimes, love means letting go of being right.

Letting someone finish their story—mistakes and all.

Letting a moment pass without jumping in.

Because the real win isn’t in being right.

It’s in keeping the peace. 

Holding space. 

Choosing connection.

So let them win.

You’ll both be better for it.

The Gift of Slowing Down 🌿

As children of aging parents, we often fill our calendars with things to do. Appointments, errands, weekend plans, home projects, and helpful check-ins—our hearts are in the right place, always moving, always doing.

But maybe what’s really needed … is the opposite.

Slowing down.

Not out of obligation, but out of love. Out of presence.

Sometimes the most meaningful moments aren’t found in the big gestures, but in the quiet ones: 

Sitting together in the afternoon sun. 

Sharing stories from yesterday—or decades ago. 

Breathing in the same room, without needing to fill every silence.

These small still moments are where connection lives. Where love speaks the loudest.

So let’s make space—not just for what’s next, but for what’s now. Let’s sit. Let’s talk. Let’s be.

Because often, that’s all our parents really want is us.

Team Spirit, Canadian Style: Who’s Your All-Time Favourite?

Whether it’s the roar of a stadium, the comfort of a favourite jersey, or the thrill of a good old-fashioned rivalry, there’s something undeniably Canadian about cheering for our teams—through the highs, the heartbreaks, and everything in between.

At Wellings, we recently asked our community on Facebook:

“Which Canadian sports team has your unwavering support?”

Let’s just say—you did not hold back. And we loved it.

From Leafs Nation to Blue Jays Forever…

Maple Leafs fans came out in full force (of course—win or lose, they’re in it for life).

Jays supporters brought the blue-and-white energy, reminding us it’s always “Go Jays Go.”

The Oilers, Flames, Sens, and Habs got plenty of love too—because when it comes to hockey, we all have that one team we grew up watching on Saturday nights.

Some folks even repped all the Toronto teams (Leafs, Raptors, Argos, and Jays—what a lineup).

Others kept it real and said, “Nope, not a sports person”—which we totally respect.

And then there were the wildcard picks…

The CFL got some cheers too—Elks, RedBlacks, and Roughriders fans proudly waving their team colours. One comment even gave curling the shout-out it deserves.

(We see you, strategy lovers.)

So… what’s your team?

We want to hear from you. Share your favourite team or a story about why you cheer for them. Was it a family tradition? A favourite player? A legendary comeback game?

Sports bring people together—whether we’re in the stands, on the couch, or chatting in the bistro at Wellings.

Let the friendly rivalries begin.

Reply to this email with your favourite team or story—we’d love to feature a few in our next update.

Spring Is About Renewal 🌱

There’s something magical about spring, isn’t there?

It doesn’t announce itself loudly. 

It tiptoes in—soft sunlight on the kitchen counter, birdsong in the early hours, the first brave green shoots nudging through the soil. 

Slowly, quietly, the world begins to stir again.

At the Wellings, spring is more than just a change in the weather—it’s a reminder. A whisper from nature that no matter how long the winter, there is always the promise of renewal.

Renewal isn’t about going back. It’s about growing forward.

It’s about dusting off old dreams and planting new ones.

It’s about reconnecting—with ourselves, with each other, and with the simple joys of life.

Maybe that’s enjoying a fresh walk on the trail, swapping recipes in the common kitchen, starting a new hobby, or just breathing in that crisp, hopeful air.

Spring reminds us that every season in life has something to offer—and that we, too, can bloom in our own time, in our own way.

Here’s to fresh starts.

To longer days, lighter hearts, and brighter tomorrows.

Happy Spring, Wellings friends

—With warmth,
Your Wellings Family

Personalized Nutrition: Fine-Tuning Your Plate for Vibrant Living

Eating Well for an Active Life

At Wellings, we believe that food isn’t just about nourishment—it’s about enjoyment, connection, and supporting a vibrant, active lifestyle. With personalized nutrition on the rise, more people are tailoring their meals to better suit their individual needs, ensuring they have the energy and wellness to embrace every moment.

Today, we will dive into easy ways to eat what you need to fuel the lifestyle you are after. 

Eating well doesn’t have to be complicated, and with a few additions or changes to what your current eating habits are you could see some real benefit.

One Size No Longer Fits All

Gone are the days of one-size-fits-all nutrition plans. Researchers predict that the personalized nutrition market will exceed $16 billion by 2025, reflecting a shift toward more customized health solutions. From smart devices that track health data to AI-driven meal planning, technology is making it easier than ever to personalize what’s on our plates.

Instead of following generic dietary advice, individuals are now seeking food choices that support their specific health goals—whether it’s cardiovascular health, joint support, brain function, or gut balance. For instance, omega-3s, amino acids, probiotics, and anti-inflammatory foods can all play a role in optimizing well-being.

Canada’s food guide has been revised a number of times, including a greater number of fruits, vegetables, proteins and whole grains. 

Health-Tracking Made Simple

Smart watches, fitness trackers, and continuous glucose monitors are helping people gain deeper insights into their health. These tools allow individuals to monitor heart rate, oxygen levels, and blood pressure, providing valuable information for making informed dietary and lifestyle decisions.

Working with a Dietitian

For a more tailored approach, registered dietitians can help assess medical history, activity levels, and nutritional needs to create meal plans that align with personal health goals. Whether it’s managing blood sugar levels, optimizing digestion, or reducing inflammation, a professional can offer guidance that supports long-term well-being.

The Power of Gut Health

Did you know that nearly 70% of the immune system resides in the gut? A well-balanced microbiome plays a key role in digestion, nutrient absorption, and even mood regulation. Foods rich in probiotics (such as yogurt and fermented vegetables) and fiber (like whole grains and leafy greens) can support gut health and overall vitality.

Making Every Meal Count

At Wellings, we celebrate the joy of good food. Whether you’re cooking at home or enjoying a meal with friends, small adjustments—such as choosing whole, minimally processed foods and incorporating a variety of nutrient-dense ingredients—can have a big impact on how you feel.

No matter your dietary preferences, finding a balance that works for your body is key. As we embrace the next chapter of life, personalized nutrition helps ensure that every bite supports not just our health, but also our enjoyment of the everyday moments that make life meaningful.

Tips:

As you age, and activity levels change, be aware of what food you are eating in what amounts. If you are feeling fuller more quickly, or notice you aren’t eating much, ensure you start with the proteins, they are great for keeping your muscles strong.

Cook for yourself, or if you are out, choose foods that aren’t heavily processed, fried or coated in a rich sauce. Prep what you can ahead of time, so you aren’t hungry while you wait for it to cook.

Slow down to eat. It will help your digestive system catch up, and helps prevent overeating.

Enjoy your food and the fuel it provides to help you live a healthy and vibrant life for many years to come.

The Overlooked Vegetable That Packs a Punch

In the world of nutrition, some foods get all the spotlight—spinach, broccoli, sweet potatoes. 

But every now and then, a quiet underdog emerges from the shadows with a resume too good to ignore. 

Enter the turnip: a humble root vegetable that may not win beauty contests, but for adults over 60, it might just be one of the smartest additions to your plate.

Why Turnips Deserve a Second Look

Turnips have been cultivated for thousands of years, yet they often go unnoticed in modern kitchens. That’s a missed opportunity—especially for seniors. Low in calories and high in fibre, these versatile veggies deliver powerful health benefits in every bite.

Just one medium-sized turnip provides around 30% of your daily vitamin C needs. Vitamin C is more than an immune booster; it’s essential for maintaining healthy skin, repairing tissues, and protecting cells from damage caused by aging and stress.

But the goodness doesn’t stop there. 

Turnips are rich in polyphenols and flavonoids, antioxidants that combat oxidative stress—a key factor in age-related conditions like heart disease and cognitive decline. By including more antioxidant-rich foods like turnips in your diet, you’re actively supporting your body’s ability to age well.

A Nutrient Trio for the Golden Years

For seniors, three minerals found in turnips make a powerful case for regular inclusion:

  • Potassium helps manage blood pressure and supports cardiovascular health.

  • Calcium plays a central role in keeping bones strong and preventing fractures.

  • Iodine is vital for proper thyroid function, which influences energy levels and metabolism.

Together, these nutrients support systems that often need extra care as we age—heart, bones, and hormones.

A Gentle Ally for Digestion and Detox

Digestive issues such as constipation can become more common with age. The high fibre content in turnips naturally supports a healthier digestive tract, helping things move along more smoothly. Regular consumption can also support liver function, aiding in the detoxification process that keeps your body running clean and efficiently.

Easy, Tasty, and Surprisingly Versatile

Perhaps the most surprising thing about turnips? How adaptable they are in the kitchen. Whether you’re cooking for one or a family gathering, turnips easily fit into all kinds of dishes:

  • Roasted: Chop into chunks, toss with olive oil and herbs, and roast until golden for a crispy, caramelized side.

  • Soups and stews: Add them diced for a slightly peppery flavour and hearty texture.

  • Mashed: A lighter alternative to mashed potatoes, turnips pair well with garlic and butter.

  • Raw in salads: Shred or slice thin for a crunchy, refreshing twist.

  • Stir-fried: Cut into matchsticks and sauté with other vegetables and lean protein for a quick, nutrient-dense meal.

Turnips absorb flavour beautifully, making them an excellent canvas for seasoning and experimentation.

A Small Change That Makes a Big Impact

The best part? Turnips are widely available, budget-friendly, and easy to prepare. They don’t require special techniques or ingredients—just a willingness to try something new (or rediscover something old). For adults focused on maintaining energy, mobility, and vitality, turnips offer a simple, effective way to enhance everyday meals.

Next time you’re in the produce aisle, skip past the usual suspects and grab a few turnips. 

Roast them, mash them, toss them in a salad—whatever suits your style. 

It’s a small step with big benefits, and your body will be glad you made it.

Keep living well! 

Having the Difficult Conversation With Aging Parents: A Must-Hear CBC Segment

As our parents age, we inevitably face challenging conversations about their future—topics like downsizing, health care, and lifestyle changes. These discussions can be emotional, but they are essential to ensuring our loved ones are comfortable, safe, and supported.

The Aging Conversation We Need to Have

Aging affects us all. Canada’s population is aging rapidly, and in just five years, nearly a quarter of Canadians will be over the age of 65. Despite this reality, many of us struggle to talk about aging and its challenges.

CBC’s Matt Galloway recently aired an insightful segment on The Current about how to approach these tough conversations. He was joined by two experts: Dr. Samir Sinha, a Canadian geriatrician and health policy expert, and Laura Tamblyn Watts, author of Let’s Talk About Aging Parents: A Real-Life Guide to Solving Problems.

Dr. Sinha is the Director of Geriatrics at Sinai Health and the University Health Network in Toronto. He also serves as the Director of Health Policy Research at the National Institute on Aging and is a visiting fellow at the University of Oxford. As a leading advocate for improving healthcare systems to better support aging populations, he has been actively involved in shaping policies for senior care in Canada.

This discussion highlights the importance of planning ahead and ensuring families are prepared for the transitions that come with aging.

Listen to the full segment here.

Words to Live By

Life, at this stage, feels like a cherished book—one filled with stories of love, laughter, resilience, and wisdom. 

Our members at the Wellings are at a place where they have witnessed the beauty of change, embraced the joy of connection, and discovered the strength within themselves. Through it all, words—spoken, remembered, or written—have carried us forward, offering comfort and inspiration.

Today I want to share a few poems that bring light, warmth, and a sense of possibility:

“Desiderata” by Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
It is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

“When You Are Old” by W.B. Yeats

When you are old and grey and full of sleep,
and nodding by the fire, take down this book,
and slowly read, and dream of the soft look
your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;
How many loved your moments of glad grace,
and loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
and loved the sorrows of your changing face;
And bending down beside the glowing bars,
murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
and paced upon the mountains overhead
and hid his face amid a crowd of stars.

“Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night” by Dylan Thomas

Do not go gentle into that good night,
Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
Though wise men at their end know dark is right,
Because their words had forked

Poetry has a way of capturing the heart of our experiences, reminding us of life’s wonder and the endless possibilities ahead. 

Some verses feel like old friends, gently encouraging us to keep savoring every moment. 

I want to wish you an inspired day ahead.

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