Living with Intention: A Gentle Start to the Year
The month of January can make even the calmest among us feel like we should be doing more. People are buzzing about New Year’s resolutions, goal setting and self-improvement plans. It’s as if the calendar flips and suddenly we’re all supposed to work at becoming upgraded versions of ourselves. But wait a minute. What if we didn’t pressure ourselves to overhaul our lives every January? What if, instead of making resolutions, we simply set an intention and make that our guide to help us live with awareness and authenticity? Living with intention isn’t about striving or achieving; it’s about choosing how we want to feel, how we want to show up for ourselves and others, and it’s about choosing to focus on what truly matters. That’s a much kinder way to begin the year and it’ll last longer than any diet or 30-day challenge ever could.
We need to clear the clutter in our homes and in our head. Yes both.
Let’s start with something simple like clearing our space. Before you roll your eyes at another decluttering suggestion, I promise this isn’t about colour-coded bins or organized spice racks, unless that sort of thing lights you up, in which case, go for it. I’m talking about making space both physically and mentally. Take a moment to look around your home, and notice what feels heavy or unnecessary? What’s taking up space without adding value? What are you no longer wearing in your closet? What about that junk drawer, or junk basket we all have? I know I’m not just talking to myself here when I say that editing those areas in our living space can feel surprisingly liberating.
While we’re on the subject, notice what kind of clutter might be piling up in your head. Maybe it’s old worries, outdated self-doubt, or the dreaded “shoulds” like I should be doing more, I should have this figured out by now, I should call my friend back. Let’s be honest, those thoughts don’t add value to our lives, they drain us. Let’s set an intention to clear the clutter, inside and out. Let’s ask whether things and thoughts are adding value to our lives and if they’re not, let’s clear out what no longer serves us, to make space for clarity, and calm. Doesn’t that sound like a great way to start a new year?
“Nothing changes if nothing changes, but when we change our attention, everything shifts.”
– Unknown
Once we’ve made some space, the next step is to fill it: not with more stuff, but with connection. If the past few years have taught us anything, it’s that we need each other. Real, human connection is nourishment for the soul, so this year, let’s make a little more room for it. Set a challenge for yourself to talk to someone new, maybe a younger neighbour or a classmate from yoga. Reconnect with an old friend or say yes to that coffee invitation. Heck invite someone for coffee instead of waiting for them to invite you. Join a book club, a walking group, or even an online class. Host a potluck lunch with a few friends or new friends. Connection doesn’t have to be complicated, but it should be genuine.
Our world needs togetherness now more than ever. Every passing hello is recognition, every shared laugh is a joy snack, every small act of kindness helps to build a stronger, more compassionate community. And let’s be honest here, when we open our minds and hearts to connect with people of different ages and experiences, life gets a whole lot more interesting.
“When you live with intention, every day has meaning.” – Anonymous
But the question remains, how do we live every day with intention? In my experience, it’s much simpler than it sounds. It’s about noticing what’s working for you and what isn’t. It’s about choosing to be kind even when it’s inconvenient, to listen more carefully and mindfully, to speak with care and compassion, and to appreciate the beauty in our daily life. Living with intention is an ongoing practice; it’s a commitment not a fleeting statement. It’s noticing the sunrise or sunset, taking a beat before responding, choosing gratitude over complaining and giving ourselves grace when we forget all of that because we’re human. It’s giving us permission to be a work in progress, while still celebrating how far we’ve come. Intention isn’t about perfection, it’s about awareness.
“Every moment is a fresh beginning.” – poet, T.S. Eliot
As we step into this fresh new year, maybe we can begin to let go of the pressure to be better and simply allow ourselves to be. Clear a little space, connect a little more, and approach each day with curiosity and kindness. That’s what living with intention looks like: not striving, but flowing, not forcing, but allowing, not changing but shifting our perspective slightly. As you ease into 2026, may you find peace in your heart, clarity in your space, and beautiful connections that remind you of how much you matter.