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😊 The Power of a Smile

Have you ever looked up… and noticed the senior walking past you?
Maybe with a cane. Maybe carrying groceries. Maybe just out for their daily stroll.
You catch their eye—but do you smile? Do you say hello?

For some, that may be the only conversation they’ll have all day. For them, your simple “good morning” might mean everything. Seniors in our city carry stories, wisdom, and quiet resilience—and sometimes all it takes is one friendly face to remind them they’re seen and valued.

In our busy, often distracted world, it’s easy to rush from one task to the next without pausing to notice the people around us. But for many older adults—especially those who live alone—those brief human connections can be a highlight of the day. A smile or a wave says: I see you. You matter. It’s an acknowledgement that goes beyond words, touching something deep within us all—the need to feel part of a community.

One act of kindness often leads to another. Your smile might spark a conversation, which might lead to a shared laugh, which could brighten not only their day, but yours too. Kindness has a way of growing. Research shows that positive interactions can boost mood, reduce feelings of loneliness, and even improve overall well-being. For older adults, that little moment of connection can be the difference between a quiet day and one filled with warmth.

At Wellings, we see this truth in action every day. Members greet each other in the hallways, stop for a chat in the clubhouse, or lend a hand with groceries. These small moments weave together to create the fabric of community—something that enriches everyone’s life, no matter their age.

So tomorrow, look up. Smile. Say good day. You never know how much it might mean to the person receiving it—or how much joy it might bring to you in return. Because in the end, connection doesn’t just change someone’s day—it changes us all.

in Carefreedom Living®, Healthy Aging Posted by My Wellings

Look Up and Connect

Look up and connect with the world around you.

There is so much to notice, to appreciate, to be thankful for.
The trees lining our streets.
The schools, the parks, the communities we call home.

So much of what we enjoy today was built by the hands, hearts, and hopes of those who came before us—our seniors.
They taught.
They volunteered.
They paved roads—literal and figurative—so we could walk a little easier.

Every corner of our towns and cities holds stories. Behind the park benches, the libraries, the community centres, and the quiet neighbourhood streets are decades of dedication from people who believed in building something lasting. Many of them are still here with us today—our neighbours, friends, and family members—continuing to inspire us with their wisdom, resilience, and generosity of spirit.

Today, take a moment to look up.
Notice the sunlight through the trees, the sound of children playing, the cheerful songs of birds in the air, and the way a neighbour tends their garden.

Smile at someone walking by. You never know how much a small gesture can brighten someone’s day.

Ask yourself: What can I do today to say thank you to a senior in my life or in my neighbourhood?

Sometimes it’s as simple as a friendly wave or a heartfelt “thank you.” Other times, it might mean offering your time, listening to a story from the past, or lending a helping hand. Every act of kindness—big or small—reminds the people around us that they matter.

At Wellings, we believe connection is the heartbeat of a thriving community. When we pause to look up, to notice, and to engage, we strengthen the bonds that make our neighbourhoods feel like home.

So today, and every day, take a moment to look up and connect. Because in the end, it’s these shared moments that make life richer—for all of us.

in Carefreedom Living®, Healthy Aging Posted by My Wellings

🤝 Supporting Senior Independence: Why Choice Matters

As we age, maintaining the ability to make our own choices becomes one of the most important factors in living well. Choice is not just about freedom—it’s deeply connected to confidence, dignity, and a sense of purpose. When seniors are allowed to decide how they want to live their daily lives, they feel empowered and respected. This sense of control helps prevent feelings of helplessness and isolation, which can often accompany aging.

Independence grows from these choices. When seniors can manage their own routines, activities, and social connections, they build self-confidence and remain engaged in their communities. On the other hand, taking away that ability—even with good intentions—can unintentionally reduce their motivation, confidence and well-being. Our experience shows once someone loses confidence in their ability to make decisions, it takes a very long time to recover from it and when they make one mistake they fall back into not trusting themselves and the cycle often repeats itself. 

Families and caregivers play a vital role in supporting this independence by encouraging seniors to express their preferences and by respecting their decisions. It’s about partnership, not control. Together, we can help our seniors live with dignity, joy, and strength with their independence for as long as possible. 

🤝 A Gentle Guide for Families & Caregivers: Supporting Senior Independence

  1. Ask First, Then Support
    Always begin by asking your loved one what they want or need. For example, instead of deciding to cancel a planned outing, ask if they still want to go and how you can assist. This simple act respects their voice and empowers them to stay involved in their own life choices.
  2. Respect Their Experience
    Seniors have decades of life experience and wisdom that shape their decisions. For instance, an older adult may prefer preparing their own meals because they know their tastes and dietary needs best. Honouring this respects their knowledge and autonomy.
  3. Encourage, Don’t Control
    Offer help only when needed, and avoid taking over activities they are still capable of doing. For example, if a senior wants to do their own gardening, encourage them and assist with heavier tasks instead of doing everything for them.
  4. Trust Their Abilities
    Don’t underestimate what they can do because of their age. A senior who has safely ridden a bike for years might still enjoy it. Trusting their ability to assess their own limits shows confidence in their independence.
  5. Stay Patient and Listen
    Sometimes what seniors need most is to be heard without interruption. If they want to share memories or express concerns, listen attentively without rushing to offer solutions.
  6. Celebrate Their Independence
    Recognize and praise their efforts to maintain their routines and passions. Complimenting someone for continuing to paint or attend community events reinforces their confidence and motivation.
  7. Focus on Safety With Respect
    Discuss any safety concerns openly and involve them in problem-solving. For example, instead of forbidding them to drive, explore options like driving at safer times or using alternative transportation together. 
  8. Remember: Dignity Comes From Choice
    Allowing seniors to make their own decisions, even small ones, preserves their dignity. Whether it’s choosing what to wear or deciding when to socialize, these choices affirm their identity and self-worth.

As time goes on, there may come a moment when your loved one needs more help with things like technology, banking, health appointments, or getting around. When this happens, it’s important to always ask their permission before stepping in to assist. This simple act of respect helps keep some control and decision-making power in their hands. Feeling in control of their own life, even when receiving help, supports their confidence and well-being as they continue the journey of aging.

Recommended Canadian Resource

For families and caregivers seeking more guidance, The Canadian Centre for Caregiving Excellence (canadiancaregiving.org) offers excellent resources on supporting seniors with respect, autonomy, and practical advice on caregiving. Their materials emphasize dignity and partnership in care — a great complement to this guide.

Supporting seniors means valuing their independence as much as their safety. It’s a balance that enriches their lives—and ours.

in Carefreedom Living® Posted by My Wellings

Happy Fathers Day

Happy Father’s Day to all the incredible men in our lives who are fathers, grandfathers, stepfathers, and father figures.

Today, we honour your strength, love, guidance, and quiet sacrifices. 

Thank you for all you do — and for being someone we can always count on.

Wishing you a day filled with appreciation, love, and a little well-deserved relaxation. 

— From all of us at the Wellings

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How Do You Know When It’s Time to Move to the Wellings?

At some point in our lives, we all face transitions that ask for more than just logic—they ask for heart. And one of the biggest questions we hear from people in their late 60s or early 70s is this:

“How do I know when I’m ready to move into the Wellings?”

It’s a powerful question, because it’s not just about real estate. It’s about identity, freedom, and creating a better rhythm for this next chapter of life.

You Don’t Have to Wait Until You Need To

Many of our members tell us the same thing once they’ve settled in:

 “I wish I’d done this sooner.”

Why? 

Because they made the move while they still had the energy to enjoy the process. They packed on their terms. They said goodbye to their old home with a full heart—not one weighed down by stress or urgency. They stepped into their new lifestyle with excitement, not exhaustion.

Think of it this way: the best time to make a change is before you feel forced to. Not when you’ve been worn down by three months of planning, selling, sorting, and saying goodbye in a rush. Not when the house has become too much, and you’re bringing all that overwhelm with you.

It’s hard to start something new when you’re running on empty.

Are You Feeling More Drained Than Uplifted by Your Home?

Your home may have been the center of your world for decades. A place of family dinners, holidays, laughter, and life. But sometimes—quietly, slowly—it shifts from being a source of comfort to a source of stress.

Is it harder to keep up with the maintenance?

Do you avoid certain stairs or rooms because they just feel like too much?

Are you spending more time managing your house than enjoying it?

These can be the subtle signs. 

The whispers.

Moving Doesn’t Mean You’re Giving Up

Sometimes there’s a fear: If I leave my home, am I giving up a part of who I am?

The truth is, moving into the Wellings isn’t about loss. It’s about choosing to live lighter, freer, and more connected.

You’re not downsizing your life. You’re expanding your possibilities.

At the Wellings, your days are your own. You can lock the door and go visit the grandkids for a week without worrying about the lawn. You can try something new—a fitness class, a dinner with new friends, a quiet moment by the fire—without having to plan around chores or house upkeep.

Make the Move Before the Move Makes You

Here’s the most important thing: You want to walk into this next chapter with strength, not strain. With clarity, not chaos.

When you have the energy, the time, and the presence of mind to make the move well, it becomes something beautiful. You arrive open—not carrying the burden of burnout.

So if you’re asking the question, that’s already a sign. You’re listening to the small, wise voice that says:

Maybe now is the time to let go of what no longer fits, so I can embrace what comes next.

When you’re ready, we’re here.

And if you want to talk it through, we’ll sit with you—no pressure, just conversation.

Because your next chapter should feel like coming home.

And maybe, just maybe, that home is here.

in Carefreedom Living® Posted by My Wellings

Time to Get Moving 🚶‍♀️🕺

There’s something magical that happens when we get our bodies in motion.

A walk around the block. A little stretch in the sunroom. Dancing while the kettle boils. Movement doesn’t have to be a marathon—it can be a moment.

And those moments add up.

They wake us up. They lift our spirits. They spark joy. They remind us we’re alive.

At Wellings, movement isn’t about exercise for the sake of it. It’s about celebrating what our bodies can do. It’s about keeping the joints oiled, the blood flowing, the smiles wide.

So whether it’s a stroll with a neighbor, a stretch before breakfast, or a little cha-cha in your kitchen—go ahead. Move a little. Laugh a little. Feel good in your own skin.

This is your time. And it’s time to get moving. 

in Carefreedom Living® Posted by My Wellings

Let Them Win 💛

It’s not always easy.

We want to help. 

We want to guide. 

Sometimes, we want to set the record straight.

But as the years go by, we learn something deeper:

Not every moment needs to be corrected.

Not every detail needs to be clarified.

Sometimes, love means letting go of being right.

Letting someone finish their story—mistakes and all.

Letting a moment pass without jumping in.

Because the real win isn’t in being right.

It’s in keeping the peace. 

Holding space. 

Choosing connection.

So let them win.

You’ll both be better for it.

in Carefreedom Living® Posted by My Wellings

The Gift of Slowing Down 🌿

As children of aging parents, we often fill our calendars with things to do. Appointments, errands, weekend plans, home projects, and helpful check-ins—our hearts are in the right place, always moving, always doing.

But maybe what’s really needed … is the opposite.

Slowing down.

Not out of obligation, but out of love. Out of presence.

Sometimes the most meaningful moments aren’t found in the big gestures, but in the quiet ones: 

Sitting together in the afternoon sun. 

Sharing stories from yesterday—or decades ago. 

Breathing in the same room, without needing to fill every silence.

These small still moments are where connection lives. Where love speaks the loudest.

So let’s make space—not just for what’s next, but for what’s now. Let’s sit. Let’s talk. Let’s be.

Because often, that’s all our parents really want is us.

in Carefreedom Living® Posted by My Wellings

Blooming with Age: How Digging in the Dirt Enhances Health and Happiness

If you’re a gardener, then you’re a special type of person. Gardeners have full faith in the potential of things they cannot see. They take a certain pride in their collaboration with Mother Nature from the tiniest win to the most glorious, showstopping outcome. They have patience, at least in the garden. LOL. They love getting their hands in the dirt and enjoy sharing the experience with other gardeners. Their conversations can seem entirely uninteresting to non-gardeners and they’re okay with it. They share plants, seeds, knowledge, and offer advice and wisdom learned from their gardens. Because it’s the most popular hobby for older adults, it’s easy to connect with people who share a love for this magical, somewhat mystical pursuit.

“To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow.”  – Actor, Audrey Hepburn

I will confess that I started out in my early twenties as a naïve gardener. Living in the country, I planted a full vegetable garden that I thought I would take care of myself, until milkweed took over and I quickly lost interest. I obviously had no clue what I was doing. At the time, gardening was a great analogy for my life; I had a lot of weeds taking over there too. I’ve learned over the years that my interest in gardening is in taking care of plants that for the most part, take care of themselves. Our perennial garden suits this reluctant gardener perfectly.

“Take a look at the plants. They come together and thrive peacefully in the garden or park. They lean on each other without trying to outdo one another. They serve as a sign that we can see beyond our differences and embrace each other in love while allowing our uniqueness to add colour to our world.

If plants can live in harmony and show their beauty to the world, we as humans can do much more.”

– Author, Kemi Sogunie

Right around the first Monday after Christmas, I start counting Mondays until Spring. I learned this from a tv studio director I worked with who was an avid golfer. He counted Mondays until he could swing a golf club, and I count them because it gives me hope that the sleepy little treasures under the soil will start to rally again in the warmth of Springtime. I know plenty of gardeners and golfers who celebrate the countdown with me.

Dan Buettner, an American longevity researcher found that people who live in what are known as Blue Zones around the world tended to live longer. His research showed that there is a higher concentration of centenarians living in the areas of Okinawa Japan, Sardinia Italy, Nicoya Costa Rica, Loma Linda California, and Ikaria Greece. It turns out that gardening plays a key role in supporting both well-being and longevity in the Blue Zones. What we can learn from these “wise agers” is that daily physical activity, which includes gardening, encourages flexibility, endurance and strength without ever visiting the gym. Gardeners will often tell you that it’s their therapy because being present with the plants and the soil not only promotes mindfulness, but it also lowers stress and reduces anxiety. Tending a garden, feeds both passion, which gives us energy, and purpose, which gives our life meaning.

“When gardeners garden, it’s not just the plants that grow, but the gardeners themselves.” -Author, Ken Druse

When gardening is a shared experience, in a community garden for example, we develop social connection through our shared interest, which helps create a sense of belonging, something we need, especially as we get older. Getting our hands into the soil connects us with bacteria that can produce the happy hormone serotonin in the brain, enhancing our mood and helping us to feel more relaxed. We boost our immune system too by introducing different microorganisms into the body and getting our hands in the earth is good for our skin. I should mention that we can plant a container of herbs on our windowsill and call ourselves a gardener. This should be fun, and it doesn’t have to be fancy or overly ambitious. Whether we’re vegetable gardening for delicious results or growing flowers for joy snacks, any type of gardening yields the satisfaction of knowing that we’ve created something with our hands.

 “Life is a garden. It is an opportunity. You can grow weeds; you can grow roses. It all depends on you.” -Philosopher Rajneesh

Can we talk about weeds for a minute? They’re just wild plants, right? But because our flowers and vegetables are the main characters in the garden, we weed to give space to what we want to keep and discard what isn’t aligned with our goal, which is to produce beautiful flowers or vegetables. My pal Natalie mentioned that weeding is a great analogy for life, and I got giddy at the idea because it’s a powerful metaphor. Why would we hold on to relationships that aren’t aligned with our goals in life? Why don’t we weed out or edit out people and situations that drain rather than fuel us toward our goals?

Gardening is a brilliant endeavour with a lot to teach. You could say it’s a holistic approach to living, encompassing not only physical exercise but also relaxing our thinking mind, as we enjoy all the benefits of nature while connecting with others. It’s good for our self-esteem, our memory as well as our sense of purpose and community. It’s a powerful prescription for wellness with plenty of benefits and no negative side effects.

in Carefreedom Living®, Healthy Aging Posted by Kathie Donovan

Team Spirit, Canadian Style: Who’s Your All-Time Favourite?

Whether it’s the roar of a stadium, the comfort of a favourite jersey, or the thrill of a good old-fashioned rivalry, there’s something undeniably Canadian about cheering for our teams—through the highs, the heartbreaks, and everything in between.

At Wellings, we recently asked our community on Facebook:

“Which Canadian sports team has your unwavering support?”

Let’s just say—you did not hold back. And we loved it.

From Leafs Nation to Blue Jays Forever…

Maple Leafs fans came out in full force (of course—win or lose, they’re in it for life).

Jays supporters brought the blue-and-white energy, reminding us it’s always “Go Jays Go.”

The Oilers, Flames, Sens, and Habs got plenty of love too—because when it comes to hockey, we all have that one team we grew up watching on Saturday nights.

Some folks even repped all the Toronto teams (Leafs, Raptors, Argos, and Jays—what a lineup).

Others kept it real and said, “Nope, not a sports person”—which we totally respect.

And then there were the wildcard picks…

The CFL got some cheers too—Elks, RedBlacks, and Roughriders fans proudly waving their team colours. One comment even gave curling the shout-out it deserves.

(We see you, strategy lovers.)

So… what’s your team?

We want to hear from you. Share your favourite team or a story about why you cheer for them. Was it a family tradition? A favourite player? A legendary comeback game?

Sports bring people together—whether we’re in the stands, on the couch, or chatting in the bistro at Wellings.

Let the friendly rivalries begin.

Reply to this email with your favourite team or story—we’d love to feature a few in our next update.

in Carefreedom Living® Posted by My Wellings

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